Hard-Moment SOS

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NikkiBParenting · Hard-Moment SOS
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I'm about to yell

Is everyone physically safe right now?

Take one breath before you answer.

Safety first
🛑

Handle safety first.

Everything else can wait. Separate, secure, and settle bodies before anything else.

I'm about to yell

What's making you want to yell right now?

Your next three moves

One thing at a time

Stop

Notice

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Check in
🌿

Did this moment still end in yelling?

However it went, you showed up for it. That counts.

Nice work
🌱

Good. Save what worked.

Jot a quick note. Future-you will thank you next time this moment shows up.

That's okay
💛

That's okay. This is exactly what the Reset is for.

You made it through the hard moment. Now it's time to repair. The After-Yell Reset walks you through it in about five minutes.

Go to The After-Yell Reset